Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
He is gonna flip if he knows I bought a diaper bag...I had to tell him my aunt sent clothes from Florida so he didn't know I bought them off facebook and bought the diaper bag at Walmart after work what do I do
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
kammy·
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Yes and i agree not your responsibility he has a mom. Youre just mama # 2!
Aileen·
well I appreciate the advice ! thank you so much & I will definitely have him look into it ! thanks again 😄 @kambam
kammy·
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Jobs arent allowed to discriminate during family leave and if hes qualified he can break the time up in diff ways. Like one week off etc. But he should do the paperwork asap if thats the plan. Just trying to help ☺ I hope you can sort it. Poor mama.
Aileen·
I know it's his kid & I am a part of his life now but he's honestly not my responsibility! especially if he doesn't listen nor respect me why should I have to deal with him ? not my kid
Aileen·
oh yeah I don't think he can get that due to the fact he just started last week .. & yes I feel the same way I am due in 13 days & barley took my maternity leave yesterday! I want to rest too.. @kambam
kammy·
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Paid family leave. Not sure how it works in AZ but it's paid by unemployment. Honestly he needs to step up and figure it out with his child!! You deserve a break and bonding time w new baby 😠
Aileen·
what is pfl ? & he doesn't really have family except his mom who is unemployed & lives down the street.. but she doesn't want to watch him I've asked already & she always has an excuse .. @kambam his kid will LiTERALLY cuss me out & he likes to choke my dogs & kick them when he doesn't get his way ! hes ONLY 5 & its overwhelming for me I can only do so much
kammy·
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im assuming he won't be able to take pfl? 😕 if he's willing he should try so you can have his help. ask any and all family for help and stay in the hospital and rest until they kick you out 😁
Aileen·
@kmblackledge92 I asked for advice /help not for you to try & judge me . I do accept the child & take care of him every day ! but I want a break once my baby gets here !
Aileen·
@kambam I do but she isn't a person to work things out with she completely hates me & there dates are settled from court
kammy·
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do you have contact with the child's mom? I'd ask if she can keep him there when the baby is born. dad can visit his son there until you're settled?