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I haaaaattttteee my job and before finding out I was pregnant I was looking for other positions. Now I'm contemplating…

I haaaaattttteee my job and before finding out I was pregnant I was looking for other positions. Now I'm contemplating what I should do! Should I continue my search and try to find a company that has immediate benefits or should I stick it out?? This job stresses me and I'm stressed about looking for another one 😩😩😩

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first_timemom17

J AmberВ ожидании первенца

@nkinsey, yes... I'm going to have to stick it out because of that... and finding a job is a job within itself that I don't think I need to deal with right now anyway

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first_timemom17

J AmberВ ожидании первенца

@beebaby, I better order a stress ball

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first_timemom17

J AmberВ ожидании первенца

@levismom, ugh!! This is crazy

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del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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Unfortunately lol

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mom2squared

TinaМама сына-младенца

@first_timemom17, my employer didn't give any. Not unless you had vaca or sick built up.

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first_timemom17

J AmberВ ожидании первенца

@levismom, and then they only give 6 weeks here of maternity

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first_timemom17

J AmberВ ожидании первенца

@beebaby, guess I better start learning to countdown my anger 😂😂❤

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first_timemom17

J AmberВ ожидании первенца

@levismom, I love my coworkers.. well the ones on my team.. it's just the work load.. and the others.. I'm in IT and everyone feels like their issue is so important or it's drop everything your doing

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mom2squared

TinaМама сына-младенца

@first_timemom17, oh girl I hear you. My attitude was nasty at that job. I knew it was only temporary too and it felt like 9 months would take an eternity. But it went quicker than I thought it would. Towards the end I was SO hateful to some of my coworkers. 🙊 I only liked 2 of them lol. They all thought it was pregnancy horomones which was a win for me. They don't know me like that though. Otherwise they would have known, when I don't like someone, I don't really hold back that I don't like them. Lol.

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del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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Mostly all require a year

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first_timemom17

J AmberВ ожидании первенца

@babylove11416, yes I wouldn't leave until I had an offer letter with the salary and so forth.. I know some companies do day one insurance and some vary

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first_timemom17

J AmberВ ожидании первенца

@beebaby, that's what I worry about as far as leave. I know some companies require a year.

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first_timemom17

J AmberВ ожидании первенца

@levismom, thank you! I'm prop going to wait but it seems so long. I was talking with boyfriend and he made me realize it's only temporary but my attitude is already bad.

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babylove11416

Jaymie MМама сына (1 год), беременна (15 нед.)

I'd say stick with it until you know you have another job. Even if my job doesn't pay me as much, I just got an interview with a better paying job. And I'm not leaving mine until I know I got the job.

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del_1520631630_beemommyof3

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You can always find another job. It is still early. Might not get maternity leave paid but it's still and option

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mom2squared

TinaМама сына-младенца

I was in the EXACT same boat as you. I wasn't able to find another job and I got stuck there. It was a sales job and I am horrible at sales. Towards the end I was about to get fired. So I took my leave at 36 weeks and when I was due to go back in January, I quit. Now I'm staying at home but if I was going to go back to work I would have used my time off lookin for a new job. It's a tough decision. Good luck!

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?