This is so off topic and random but I need answers! Lol have any of you ladies ever had a threesome…

@raquely, omg oh no ... Well I mean not your fault lol

@raquely, aw yay good lol

@raquely, thank u for sharing ☺️

Yes. We decided to do it together but he initiated it

@leahsmommi, did that make u feel any type of way?

I think it has to be mutual. it was for me so idk how to answer that lol

Nervous.. mostly. I wasn't sure how I would feel after. Are you thinking of trying it?

I was the 3rd party lol me and one of my best friends had joked about it for a while and then one day when I was at her house her boyfriend was over and it just kind of happened. It was kind of awkward and new for all of us and then I ended up leaving to let them finish. I think we all just did it for the experience and we knew each other really well so it wasn't awkward or anything after, I'm still friends with her too! But I wouldn't consider one with my SO now because I am too territorial and I wouldn't want him to touch another woman, I feel like it would change our relationship. And I wouldn't even consider one with 2 guys and I'm sure he wouldn't either lmao.

@leahsmommi, yes possibly lol I'm such a chicken

Don't do it. Wait till you're sure. It could cause unrepairable problems between you two. Just be comfortable first.

@leahsmommi, totally agree. You're right

@kambam, that's cool tho lol

Are you at least bi? @haidynsmama,

@nikilauren, omg lol that's cool tho I figured it couldn't be that bad if the 3rd party is a friend of both.

@leahsmommi, yes I am. I've had 1 gf

And he wants it, I'm guessing. I would wait. See how you feel. Don't do it now. It's different than having a gf cuz you may be territorial and not know it till it happens. Like wtf? Lol do you want to? Or not really. If you're not really sure. I wouldn't

@leahsmommi, true lol no I want to I'm just driving myself crazy with what ifs😩

Like what if he does it behind your back? Or what if he likes her more or blah blah blah what if he knows her already and just wants you to be okay w sleeping w her? All things you need to consider and be okay with since they are all possibilities lol. I hated all those questions

@leahsmommi, like what if she please him better what if he's paying more attention to her and just forgets about me lol ugh I can't

There ya go. It's a lot. Build the trust first and talk talk talk

@leahsmommi, you're right thank u girl

Anytime gorgeous!

@leahsmommi, ☺️😍

Yes, I was the 3rd party and it was soooo much fun! I was the center of attention so it was really good. And yes the bf was all over me and she was OK untill towards the end she started getting a bit more serious bcus he really wasn't paying attention to her.

I think you should really sit and talk about it bcus if she pleases him bttr he could easily start having an affair with her behind your BK.

Who's the one wanting the 3some? You or him?