TMI thought Some relationships are fading because lack of sex drives in their sex life. I feel like…
TMI thought
Some relationships are fading because lack of sex drives in their sex life. I feel like that's what's happening with mine. I'm researching this 50 Shades of Grey since I've never read the books nor seen the movies. After I am healed after I give birth, I'm hoping to spice things in surprise for my SO. My SO is my first and only guy I've ever been with so I'm not experienced sexually like he is I guess. From what I know on watching porn, guys are easy to please as long as you know what you're doing. With them all they want is some sucking, handling, bouncing/circulating thrusts, etc. When it comes to us women, we know our route better than any guy unless he's lucky enough to master it. With us women it's more complex. I don't really know what to do on both parts (my SO and myself...I'm that clueless on what to do. Please don't judge I was a huge prude before getting and during with my SO). I guess, why not research on how to spice things up than to look into what is "popular" like the Grey books/movies?
kammy·
Мама сына-младенца
those books aren't really realistic. the best way to get better with each other is talk and find out what each person wants and likes. no book can teach you about your partner.
Jasmine·
В ожидании первенца
Please don't use the 50 shades of grey book as a sex guide. It's frowned upon by most people who actually are into BDSM. It's not the safe or proper way to go about it. Open communication is the way to go! 👌🏻
Tiffany Buckheit·
Мама двоих (3 года, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
Talk about your likes and dislikes, even what yalls sexual fantasys are. How you like to be touched - we've all had days where we want a softer or rougher touch. Some guys like when their SO tell them what they want. Ex: I want it rough and from behind etc because they can get excited imagining what they can do to you. Or get a 365 sex book and try different positions for fun. Surprise him and wear something sexy. Depends on all how you feel, only you know your SO best (:
Page·
Please don't use these books as guidelines. You will end up getting hurt or honestly getting wrong advice.