Uh! It's good to finally find someone who knows what I have to deal with. @jessicasnelson

@tempysmomma, yes I know exactly how it is! That is how my husbands mom is. Has to know what the kids are doing, where they are going, etc. goes behind our backs with things! It's VERY frustrating!!

I'm with the oldest of her 3 boys and she is only like that with him. Our daughter is her first and only granddaughter and she feels the need to be in every decision. It bothers me because she tries to do what she wants. For example, she tries to give our 1year old coke after we told her not to. I also hope I'm don't end up like her. My mom doesn't even act this way. @jessicasnelson

Yes! Way to much. My husband is her only son and she's very obsessive over him and his two older kids (they aren't mine). Over steps her boundaries, talks horrible about me to his kids and him. She's just a nightmare! Hopefully I don't end up that crazy. @tempysmomma,

Right! Mine is a little possessive with her son. It's a little weird but there's not much I can do. I have to live with her. Hopefully we can move on our own in a year or 2. @jessicasnelson did she become too much to handle?

Hahaha dealing with a mother in law is never easy! I just cut mine off completely. They are a pain!!