Should I address the type of discipline my husbands first daughter has to her mom.? Should we all…

If she is sensible then you should all have a conversation if she is anything like my sons mom (crazy) then leave it to those two to figure out

He doesn't know how to speak he can be very disrespectful I think I'm the cordial one but I'm afraid of saying something that will offend her then she will say something I won't like and then THAT won't be nice @morenita1989,

If the child's behavior is disrupting your home then you should try to speak to her n just be honest

Yes ! I couldn't word it any better , I have a toddler (2years old) and my princess (14months old) and my nb , well eventually they grow up correct and I don't want my son and eventually my two youngest to grow up thinking that her behavior is correct . She spend a few hours here at our home and my son picked up a habit already! Which I KNOW AND I AM AWARE KIDS are kids and they fallow each other but I don't want it to later on become worser . @morenita1989, I have set my rules with my kids and I just don't want to be the mean step mom !!

My thing is your rules goes in your home so she has to follow whatever rules you have set in your home. That's how I run my house and always have. My son is bad af but when he is over here he knows there are rules and consequences to every rule broken. You have to be stern and start early with it. You are lucky enough that she is still young so she gets to grow up with you around and eventually will get used to how you run your home. Don't worry about being mean your a parent first and a friend later. I tell my son this all the time. And if the mom has an issue with anything your doing then she can speak to you directly

😀 okay ! Alrighty then I couldn't feel any better , that's how I've always felt about it . But knowing that there are other women in my situation and share the same feeling I can go in more comfortable speaking how I feel !

The down fall about it is that she always tells my mother in law everything ! She is very hypocrite and some how I'm always the mean one "that I'm just his wife that I should have a say in there daughters education" I can even buy her shoes or dress her up because she calls my mother in law saying "that I should have done that , that she is her mom and that's her job not mine " @morenita1989,

Amen ! But I just can't she doesn't let me speak she gets so defensive and doesn't even look into my eyes disrespectful to the max . @morenita1989, I just sometimes feel like I already have enough on my shoulders and I should just focus on my kids and let things as is but I know I will regret this later on .