Do all BM (babymommas) give you a hard time ? Lol If so how do you deal with it .?

Always :) @lucyyxoxo_,

Must be a hard way to live. Keep your head up for those babies (:

Trust is never the same ! @lucyyxoxo_, and as far as cheating that will always stay in the back of my head , it takes a lot willing power to stay in the marriage

@mimiroxy16, @elizabethq481, @barbara1201, and even stronger for taking a man back who did them wrong. It would be too much for me to handle. Always wondering could they ever do it again and that trust is never 100%

Lol I will get there ! @firemanswife,

been there, done that, no problems now! :)

And you will! God will guide you trough the right path @mimiroxy16,

Thanks I want this family to work and I tell him that. But it isn't a joke anymore. We have another on the way. So I mean like yeah I can't take things so if we make it we do and that'll be perfect but if we don't I need to make sure my kids will be alright

That fear will never will go away completely ! But god is good and ask for his strength and wisdom to understand the things that have happened and the things are still to come @barbara1201,

@mimiroxy16, your kids will turn out just fine ! Your kids are blessed to have a mommy like you who is willing to defend them and protect them from a "father" who does not have his mind seat in the right way ! Your kids will thank you ... some things are meant to stay together some aren't .. will it be hard of course but you will be definitely admired by your Kids in the long run .. and maybe one day he will regret his ignorance it maybe one day to late only god knows ! God bless your heart , you are strong keep it up never let a man make your kids feel less !

Yeah same thing happened we were engaged before but I found everything out and I forgave him but I still fear he will do it again .. Just a struggle. We talk about getting married summer but idk time will tell .

@lucyyxoxo_, it really does. Because honestly things come up like my fiancé and his sister both told me my kids shouldn't be here because his first son. Because I told his sister to stop asking us to give his baby momma money because we don't have it and she went off on me telling me how we should've thought of that before having my son and on and on. It was never ending then my fiancé got in a fight because his other kid wouldn't listen and took it out on me and I'm like I'm over it and I left and then came back the next morning to talk about him being a jerk when I don't deserve it and he like omg I should've never got with you I had a kid before it is stupid we should've never been together. And I'm like you're pretty much telling me our two shouldn't be here then he went off saying that isn't what he meant then I'm like I don't understand because if we didn't get together our two wouldn't be here. So after that I'm getting a career going and staying to myself because that was the last thing that broke me. After that I told him if I leave it's on him. Me and my kids don't deserve to hear that stuff all because of another kid. And he wonders why I'm down and just stand back and take care of my child and when his other son is down he has to go to daycare.

My boyfriend cheated on me for so long 6+months . I found out the most disturbing way ! We find our way back it was hard super hard it still is ! He asked for my hand in marriage he became my husband and I still to this day struggle ! Think about it if it's worth it ... some people are some people aren't . Pray about it god will help you @barbara1201, he helped me he keeps helping me ..

Oh no baby girl ! Walk away . I know it's hard but eventually god will put the right man in your arms . @barbara1201,

Men are hard!

Yeah I'm thinking .. He just doesn't care and he cheats on me

Then maybe he isn't the one ? @barbara1201,

Doubt it he's the type to blame me even if its his fault

:( I'm so sorry ! Man can be very stupid and irrational but eventually they regret everything they do !!! @barbara1201,

I called my mom and we went to the store 😞 he deadass left me crying all alone at home and he doesn't even care

Agh !!! :( so what are your plans now @barbara1201,

That's how I am right now its my baby's bday and this Bitch left to his moms house with his two other kids . wtf its her 1st spend it with her 😞😞😞

@lucyyxoxo_, yessss ! I agree ... I didn't know how hard and all the ups and downs it was going to consist of but I've realized I'm very strong .. but honestly sometimes I just want to throw in the towel .

Girl I'm with you on that one ! Sometimes it's just too much bs !! It's like ✌🏼 I'm out @mimiroxy16,

It takes a strong woman to get into a relationship with someone that already has kids.

Yeah I tell you though it isn't what I wanted out of life. Some times I rather leave just because how hard it gets

Oh wow you have a hard situation ! But I'm glad it's all working out for you now ! Sometimes we do have to become bitches and show man and anybody else who try stepping on us that we are strong @mimiroxy16,

Yeah, we have an agreement that if we don't work and he get with her he losses the kid because she is crazy and I don't want them any where around her I don't like that life style and he agreed. So we agreed, on a lot and to keep her out and he will only be there for his son. But that we are his family and he knows not to over step us because he did that it the beginning and the relationship did not work at all.

I bet ! Sometimes being nice isn't always a good thing when you keep being step on ! @mimiroxy16,

I keep my kid away from baby momma ohh and his daddy knows. I told him he could've stayed with her and walked. They ruined my first pregnancy for me. So I stepped up and started being a bitch. Things got better for me. Probably isn't the best thing to do. But yeah, I myself could only take so much. People think I'm stupid. And mean but even people in my family was like omg what the hell.

Definitely ! Specially when the kids are being involved @mamasbabies,

Just know ur place with ur man. If ever need be to have to have some type of communication with her try to keep it quardral. But stand your ground to the fullest for u and ur children at all times.

I wish I could ! I should definitely work on it @mamasbabies,

I agree with firemanswife. You kill them with kindness.

I do to a point ,but not when my kids are being involved ! That I can't do @mimiroxy16, I wish I had it easier .

Ahhhh! It's so hard , I've been dealing with this dilema for awhile ! I'm screwed lol @firemanswife,

Ignore them. I do

baby daddy should have them in line, but you kill them with kindness!