I guess I just need a safe place to vent..
My husband is the sole provider of the house. He literally I'd the most disrespectful soul I've ever come across... which isn't who I married and it kills me, everyday. He doesn't rub my baby bump, send sweet messages, play with my hair, tub my back... instead he gets angry if I ask when to expect him home.
Tells me not to bother him while he's busy (including him not being at work) and overall tries making himself look way better than me. It's extremely hurtful.. he's cheated once already and he's shitty if I bring it up or don't trust him.. as if I should forget. He treats me like shit when he has a bad day, but I can't even talk to him about my day if there's the slightest negativity in it no matter HOW I SAY IT.
I HAVE NO ONE. He's supposed to be my safe place, I consider a shelter frequently but I've got a three year old...
Not only that but him as the sole provider, her birthday is going to be terrible again this year and that's the worst part... last year she didn't get any gifts. 😢 And this year he's already shrugging off and making excuses for her party.
I can't work because his hours are so sporadic and he uses my car for work.. I feel trapped and it's terrible.
Thanks for reading if you stuck through.
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I'm sorry you're going through this 💔it's not easy having to deal with someone who literally robs you from your joy. I know how you feel.. is he like this all the time or has this just started ? Maybe because he's the sole provider he's stressed and cracking under pressure? Or is he just an asshole who thinks because he's the sole provider he can act this way? If that's the case you and your daughter don't need that on your lives! I know it's heart breaking but you need to listen to your gut! I know you're alone but you need to find a way to get out. Whether it be a friend, another family member just so you get your head right there are state programs that'll help you get on your feet. Good luck love ❤️
I haven't been in that situation but if you ever have the car take it and just go to your moms house.. it may be full but being stuck in a crowded home for a few days is better than being stuck with him. It might send him the message he needs.
Oh man. I've been EXACTLY there. Cheating, being alone, jerk husband and all! We moved and it got way better for me. I hope you can find something to make it better for you too. Feel free to message me if you need an ear.
Only my mom, but her house is full right now. She helps loads when I vent and she's talked to him more than a few times to ask what his problem is. He cops an attitude with my three year old... and I just fall out of love daily. I can't help but EXPLODE when he tries to pull that. Luckily I don't leave her with him EVER.
I just don't even know where to begin to get out. I have no one.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
It happened....?
2.5 years and today was the day he heard me fart. I thought I could crop dust him, but it came out full force. He looked at me and busted out laughing. ?
i finally let him do it
I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that t...
This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪
Thank you, Orchilles. 💖