So so stressed 😥 Baby's due in basically a week. And my restraining order against my abusive ex ends this Tuesday. On top of that, a girl I work with knows him and visits him, I know she's probably told him where I work by now and I'm just hoping that he doesn't show up at my job or something during this last week. I would go get the order reinstated, but I'm terrified of seeing him again, and it's too much stress to go through before I have the baby, or after if that's when the hearing happen to be scheduled.
Ugh. I don't know what to do.
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It's going to be hard - you're probably going to have nightmares again. But, you have to be strong for that little one. You're a mama. You got this. 💪🏼
Go in first thing in the morning and have it reinstated. Shouldn't be hard to do.
@jennatess, yes, it was due to the violence...you're probably right, but it just makes me sick to my stomach and uncontrollably shaky to see him. And it took me a long time to get over the nightmares...I felt at peace for awhile, now that's all about to be brought back to surface. But, I have to do what's best for my baby..
Was the restraining order put in place because he was violent? If so. Get it reinstated. That stress of getting it reinstated is way less than the stress of worrying if he's going to come around you and your newborn. It's more important to keep that baby safe. ❤️
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Bump pic. 14 weeks 2 days ! I'm showing alot earlier with my boy than I did with my girl !excuse the background, I'm at work, im a painter, and one of my workers said boss you're getting pudgy !! 😋😋 so I had to go take a look in the mirror!
I know my man gotta hustle and make that Mula but I'm so tired of bae working over time I hate being lonely all day and I miss him so much grr ugh 😢😣
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
Im going through the same exact thing with my ex. I have an order of protection against him he beat me for three years but i finally left him. I lost 8 pregnancies because of him. He keeps harrasing me but i say to myself dont let your ex man push you around or scare you because your better than him. Be strong momma i will pray for you. My new fiance and i are expecting our first baby together. He has twin daughters from an old relationship.