So so stressed 😥 Baby's due in basically a week. And my restraining order against my abusive ex ends this Tuesday. On top of that, a girl I work with knows him and visits him, I know she's probably told him where I work by now and I'm just hoping that he doesn't show up at my job or something during this last week. I would go get the order reinstated, but I'm terrified of seeing him again, and it's too much stress to go through before I have the baby, or after if that's when the hearing happen to be scheduled.
Ugh. I don't know what to do.
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It's going to be hard - you're probably going to have nightmares again. But, you have to be strong for that little one. You're a mama. You got this. 💪🏼
Go in first thing in the morning and have it reinstated. Shouldn't be hard to do.
@jennatess, yes, it was due to the violence...you're probably right, but it just makes me sick to my stomach and uncontrollably shaky to see him. And it took me a long time to get over the nightmares...I felt at peace for awhile, now that's all about to be brought back to surface. But, I have to do what's best for my baby..
Was the restraining order put in place because he was violent? If so. Get it reinstated. That stress of getting it reinstated is way less than the stress of worrying if he's going to come around you and your newborn. It's more important to keep that baby safe. ❤️
Im going through the same exact thing with my ex. I have an order of protection against him he beat me for three years but i finally left him. I lost 8 pregnancies because of him. He keeps harrasing me but i say to myself dont let your ex man push you around or scare you because your better than him. Be strong momma i will pray for you. My new fiance and i are expecting our first baby together. He has twin daughters from an old relationship.