Is it bad that sometimes I feel like I should have never married someone that already had a child :( it's not the child either. It's the mother. Like these are real feelings and idk if my hormones are just crazy or my depression is catching up to me, but sometimes I feel like I wanna leave just so I don't have to deal with it. I feel like my anger, and jealously is just to much to handle.
Therapy is never anything to be ashamed of! A lot of people are against it, but I love it! It honestly saved my life.
Girl, I hear you. It's so awful. Fuck em though. We're doin the right thing
That's excalty how I feel about my sons. I already told my husband the day I found o was pregnant I wasn't gunna let them treat my son differently and they did the whole time I was pregnant and then now they love him so much blah blah blah but yet only seen him twice @bria,
@korahleah_11, yeah that's how I feel too that's why I keep my daughter away from them but it hurts my feelings for my daughter. My stepson is a huge part of my bfs family's life. So my daughter is going to grow up knowing they have something against her. It's horrible
Damn. That's rough. But I understand though. & the worse thing about his family is they are such two faced people. Hell I'd rather them not even try to come around then be two faced. :( @bria,
It's unbearable. Like @cubanese, said. It's so hard not to leave. It's too much. I'm in the same boat and now that I have a child with my bf, I am definitely taking things personal. My bfs mother has seen my daughter 3 times since she was born almost 7 months ago. They don't care about her, they don't desire to have any relationship with her and all live within 30 mins of us. It's really sad. Every day I wonder if I'm doing the right thing by staying here. It's the worst for real
Thank you girl! And he's told his family to keep their mouths shut up by they don't listen. I try to respect them as much as I can but one day I'm going blow the hell up! @morganmommy79,
@korahleah_11, it's hard but if you leave that opens up a whole new set of problems to deal with. He needs to step up to his family and say something. You come first. My husband took on me and my two now we have one together. It's hard for him too, I see it but we try to work together on things and his family knows not to interfere like they used to. And think of it this way, if you ever move on someone will be with you and your kids that don't belong to them. It'll be hard but you work it out because you love each other. ❤️
And then his ex tries to txt him and tries to tell him what to do like excuse me? Your irrelevant just boils my blood @cubanese,
Excalty. & his mom is the same way. I'm just over it. @cubanese,
We've been married almost two years 🙄 @cubanese,
Like the other day his step mom put all the "family" pictures in a frame and she put one of him & her.. and even posted it on fb like seriously @cubanese,
I never did either but I figured I could handle it but boy I was wrong. & the fact that his family rubs it in my face makes it worse. I feel like I should just get my kids and leave @cubanese,
Thank you! I'm thinking about talking to my dr cause I hate feeling this way and I try to deal with it but it's hard. There's so much more to it and it's getting overwhelming and I feel like I'm gunna end up in the crazy house @shylamarie,
It's totally understandable. A lot of people get those feelings. Yeah, they are ugly feelings to have and we all wish we wouldn't get feelings like that, but we are all human. You are still there and caring for your family and that's all that matters 😊 that makes you awesome all on your own! Just make sure to always take care of yourself, too! 💖
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Racial nickname
I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
TMI
every time I have a contraction I feel like I have to poop or pee. Sometimes both 😩 is this Normal ??
Today just may be my lucky day you guys let me hurry up with this baby sprinkle and get to that hospital they coming they coming I'm dying I think it's real this time frfr my pelvic bone feels like it's having contractions
I use to go to therapy when I was younger :) @shylamarie,