Is it bad that sometimes I feel like I should have never married someone that already had a child :(…

It's totally understandable. A lot of people get those feelings. Yeah, they are ugly feelings to have and we all wish we wouldn't get feelings like that, but we are all human. You are still there and caring for your family and that's all that matters 😊 that makes you awesome all on your own! Just make sure to always take care of yourself, too! 💖

Thank you! I'm thinking about talking to my dr cause I hate feeling this way and I try to deal with it but it's hard. There's so much more to it and it's getting overwhelming and I feel like I'm gunna end up in the crazy house @shylamarie,

Same boat girl

It sucks. @bria,

I never did either but I figured I could handle it but boy I was wrong. & the fact that his family rubs it in my face makes it worse. I feel like I should just get my kids and leave @cubanese,

Like the other day his step mom put all the "family" pictures in a frame and she put one of him & her.. and even posted it on fb like seriously @cubanese,

We've been married almost two years 🙄 @cubanese,

Excalty. & his mom is the same way. I'm just over it. @cubanese,

And then his ex tries to txt him and tries to tell him what to do like excuse me? Your irrelevant just boils my blood @cubanese,

@korahleah_11, it's hard but if you leave that opens up a whole new set of problems to deal with. He needs to step up to his family and say something. You come first. My husband took on me and my two now we have one together. It's hard for him too, I see it but we try to work together on things and his family knows not to interfere like they used to. And think of it this way, if you ever move on someone will be with you and your kids that don't belong to them. It'll be hard but you work it out because you love each other. ❤️

Thank you girl! And he's told his family to keep their mouths shut up by they don't listen. I try to respect them as much as I can but one day I'm going blow the hell up! @morganmommy79,

It's unbearable. Like @cubanese, said. It's so hard not to leave. It's too much. I'm in the same boat and now that I have a child with my bf, I am definitely taking things personal. My bfs mother has seen my daughter 3 times since she was born almost 7 months ago. They don't care about her, they don't desire to have any relationship with her and all live within 30 mins of us. It's really sad. Every day I wonder if I'm doing the right thing by staying here. It's the worst for real

Damn. That's rough. But I understand though. & the worse thing about his family is they are such two faced people. Hell I'd rather them not even try to come around then be two faced. :( @bria,

@korahleah_11, yeah that's how I feel too that's why I keep my daughter away from them but it hurts my feelings for my daughter. My stepson is a huge part of my bfs family's life. So my daughter is going to grow up knowing they have something against her. It's horrible

That's excalty how I feel about my sons. I already told my husband the day I found o was pregnant I wasn't gunna let them treat my son differently and they did the whole time I was pregnant and then now they love him so much blah blah blah but yet only seen him twice @bria,

Girl, I hear you. It's so awful. Fuck em though. We're doin the right thing

Yes ma'am!!! More power to us 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 @bria,

Therapy is never anything to be ashamed of! A lot of people are against it, but I love it! It honestly saved my life.

I use to go to therapy when I was younger :) @shylamarie,