I have a question when people do your baby shower did they make u pay for everything or did they do…

@katlovesj, if they say they are throwing your shower it is customary for them to pay. Hope your doing well mama!

If smb is offering to do a baby shower for you then they take care of everything. You can ask what you can help with though

@milashka_lina @purpledpink all of sudden my friend is like I will ask for u for cash for later and she knows I don't make a lot and if I had known this I would of done no baby shower and this makes me fusturted

And there r personal things going on with my dad where money is tight and I just wanna cry @purpledpink I even said do a pot luck and grr idk wat to do @milashka_lina

if she ordered to throw it she should pay for it @katlovesj my sister is throwing mines and she and my parents are splitting the cost of whatever they decide to do

I think the people throwing it should pay. Baby showers are supposed to be like a gift to you and baby from people who want to get things you need . I've never heard of a shower where the mommy to be has to pay.

If anything you can bring like a dish or help prep but you shouldn't have to worry about costs

@dalling012589 I wish I could cook cause it would lower the cost idk wat I should say to her

@katlovesj, just talk to her openly, tell her you didn't expect to cover the cost of a shower that she is throwing for you. It's kinda stupid of ur friend to ask for cash in my opinion, then why she even offer

@milashka_lina too late the shower is next week