I'm 4 months postpartum and I still have that losing my virginity feel. I hate it. I don't feel any pain until towards the middle of having sex. It might be all in my head. We also use a lot of KY jelly. We haven't had a lot of sex do to busy schedule and lack of sleep. Before having my son we use to have sex a lot, feel bad for my husband.

I was told to wait 6 weeks... I think we waited closer to 7 before we attempted anything and it was not too bad... a little uncomfortable, but not as bad as I expected!

I did it at two and it hurt. But it hurt when I wanted sex and when I was turned on. It like hurt a good amount too. Gosh I forgot about the joys after baby gets here :/ itll get better just give it some time to heal.

we did it at 3 weeks, bleeding had stopped. it was uncomfortable but not extreme. it took a couple time b4 it felt better.

The 1st time after having a baby will be both a little painful and uncomfortable. It does feel like loosing your virginity all over again because your vagina gets tighter after a baby. You need to wait that 6 weeks

Too early! You can injure down there mama!! tell him to suck it up unless you want to spend a night in the er getting more stitches in your vag!

Give him a bj and tell him to shut up. You just grew and pushed out a human being

like my hole is too small. like maybe a 7 while it's going in

@dawnrose, a lot or like an uncomfortable pain?

It'll get better! It feels weird the first couple of times but after a couple of months postpartum it feels normal

@housfullofgrls, i kinda figured & I really didn't want to be he was begging for it since it's been months since we had sex & I felt bad then I told him to get off cause that shit hurt so bad

I waited months but after my stitches dissolved my vagina felt way better it takes about 6 weeks

I'm 8wks pp and it still hurts

Yeah you tried wayyyy too early. I waited almost 10 weeks and it barely hurt.