Being a big sister is wearing her out! Mama's when you had a new baby how did you make sure your big…
Being a big sister is wearing her out! Mama's when you had a new baby how did you make sure your big kids didn't feel left out, I feel like I always have to put off playing with her bc baby is fussy. I miss my bonding time with my first born, she's been my best friend for 8 years and now that the baby is here I just don't have enough time 😭
Natasha ☠️🤘🏼·
I feel exactly the same about my 9 year old. 😢 it's so hard to balance your time. We have a weekly day where baby goes to grandmas and they we get time together but still doesn't seem like enough.
Ashley Haberman ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@ladybug91, I totally understand. I have no one to watch baby for me so that def makes it a little harder I try to set aside time everyday but it doesn't always work out. 😭 I just miss being able to drop everything to play with my big little girl
Natasha ☠️🤘🏼·
I hear you. Breaks your heart when they ask to play and you have to feed baby or change baby. Babies are selfish little creatures. lol jk I'm sure big sister understands on some level.
Ashley Haberman ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I certainly hope so. This year was a big change for her. Her grandmother moved to Seattle, she got two new cousins so was no longer an only grandchild and then bam here comes baby sister. I'm worried it's been too much 😩
ashley·
Include her in taking care of baby. My kids loved it
Ashley Haberman ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@owenjacesmama, we do! And she does love it, so much! she's the best big sister. I guess I'm just missing my quality time with her lately. I feel like I'm always shushing her while baby sleeps or having to say no about something we would've done no questions before baby came. It's just a big transition for everyone and I don't want her to feel overlooked
ashley·
Luckily my son sleeps thru everything. My kids are so loud