OK so I have to rant before I fucking explode on my husband. I already freaked out and shattered a wine glass... so he has already drank approx. 10 glasses of wine and is so drunk. it all started when my mom said some stuff to him that made him upset. well I was ready for bed and was almost asleep after an hour of laying there listening to his drunk whining. well next thing I know he's asking me to go get him some crackers and another glass of wine. I told him I'd go get crackers but I'm not getting him no more wine (because I heard him slurring his words). that of course got him mad. and his told me he will either drink wine of a beer from his mini fridge I told him im tired of him asking me for the wine. (not even a week ago he drank wine and ended up projectile vomiting all over me, the brand new bed, himself and the floor so I didn't want it to get that far again) well i told him if he got the beer out the fridge i was gonna throw it (which i wouldn't do I'd just put it sew here out if his reach). so then he told me to smash him in the head with it (mind you he has a gun shot wound to the head from being shot) so I asked him what his problem is and why he wants to hurt him.. then I told him again I'd go get crackers but not wine after he kept asking again and again. I got up and he called me ignorant so I grabbed the wine glass and I smashed the wine glass on his table. he kept calling me ignorant and told me I'm pushing him away. I told him that he's putting touch stress on the babies and me I don't want to loose them. he said we don't have any babies that they aren't born yet so they don't matter. so then that REALLY PUSHED me wayyyy too far. then he was talking about my dead father. like OK don't talk about my dad. he didn't die too long ago. so I'm super upset right now with glass in my foot and my husband mad at me saying "I proved alot"
@avie last time he drank he laughed in my face and was telling me the reason for everything bad happening. he doesn't remember a lot of what happened that night he was so fucked up on wine and (he said accidentally taking a pain pill with it. he said he forgot). I don't believe that. he was asking me for get up and go make him a pizza at 3 in the morning. when I said no I'm going to sleep he said it's my fault he can go to sleep that he's starving. I've been cooking for him constantly! I shouldn't be standing up cooking! I should be sitting or laying down in bed relaxing because of this blood.
honestly i would havs left him there and stayed the night at a friends or something, leave his drunk self to himself. thats messed up! that way when he wakes up ur not there hes gonna realize he messed up
Wow hopefully when he sobers up he will realize what he did. That's so far from being okay. Especially the fact that he asked you to get HIM crackers 😑 that was my red flag in all of this. You're the one carrying his baby and he asked YOU to go get him something. Mama you shouldn't stand for this behavior. He's not acting like a partner in sickness and in health would 😓
@tiannad426 I was gonna go stay in my mom's room last night but he said that would ruin our relationship. so I stayed in there with him which was a mistake cause all night he was slamming his mini fridge talking shit about me like I can't hear him.