Ariah is over a week old and I feel like my SO isn't bonding with her. Everytime he holds her he…

he may not feel comfortable. With my husband I asked him to change thr diaper or feed him. Sometimes you just have to make them do what you want them to do because they feel like they cang and expect you to do it all. Im sure once she's more independent he'll be more willing to do bond si for now you just have to make him.

Oh man.. I felt that way too. Even at 3 months my hubby still doesn't have a strong connection. It's hard for them to bond in the "4th trimester" once baby is mobile/more active that's when dads really shine! At least that's my hope!!

I also agree with @momofdeuce, sometimes you just need to tell them what to do! When hubby comes home I tell him to take the baby and change him/play so I can shower. 😝

Thanks for that ladies! I'm glad I am not the only one who has felt this way towards their lover. I appreciate the words of wisdom! @momofdeuce, @zapper,

I've been there , I just gave mine time to get used to having a baby around ; little did I know that he was just jealous that someone else had my attention more 😂 But now he bonds so much &' helps out