I need a rant, why do all my fitness without baby's find it so so hard to understand the need for great communication, like last night me and my friend arranged to go for coffee today so I rearranged mine and Leah's days and got up a lot earlier than usual and put my fucking kneck out so I could go out and actually have an adult conversation all for my "friend" to not even bother texting me back today about times and stuff but she's clearly online so why can't she just say "sorry gotta cancel" or something like that like it's really not difficult and extremely rude and iv been really really struggling with my PND and anxiety recently breaking down nearly every day so iv been filling my days so I can't think about all the shit I have going on but now all my other friends are busy or at work and I'm just sitting here with a screaming baby completely drowning in my irrational thoughts just wanting to cry the whole time, like people genuinely don't realise how big an impact there stupid actions can have on other people
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@alexmcatamney no one bothers when you have children it'd awful just shows that they wearnt a true friend x
This is why I have literally about 3 people I can actually count on. 1 is my OH, 1 is my sister and the other my best friend. The rest are just people that are there, saves me from setting myself up to get let down!
@chesscalouise2, tbh iv been quite lucky up until now but I just don't understand how difficult it could be to send a message saying "sorry gotta cancel" like it's actually a joke, like we're moving from Belfast to Edinburgh in April and when I put the status up everyone was all like "aww I gotta see you before you go" but they only want to see me if there's drink involved and yes I could leave Leah with her dad/my husband but I don't want to and shouldn't feel like to have "friends" I have to drink