Soo today I got bashed for taking my son to the park for his first time outside. Here where I live it was in the high 50s I'd say maybe even the 60s it was pretty windy but I didn't get him out of his sling carrier until the wind stopped blowing so the whole time he was swinging the wind wasn't blowing it was warm and I was told he "looks cold". He has a fleece outfit on with a onesie underneath plus super thick socks on. Do you ladies think it was right for me to be bashed about it? I kinda feel like a bad mom.
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People are going to talk no matter what. Ignore them.. who cares what people say! People do worse things than take a baby to the park. You were just doing what you thought was a good idea. Every baby is different and unique. For example, what your baby had on would have been too much for my 2 month old boy because he gets hot so fast. He sleeps in a onesie. I Don't put a hat on him when we leave the house because he literally has a full head of hair and he cries when I try to put one on him (something strangers or family wouldn't know just by looking at him)He also has slept in the bed with me since day 1. You are the ONLY one who knows what's best for YOUR baby! Just like how YOU thought of things you could have done better for the next time: that alone makes you a great mom. Motherhood Is a learning experience 100%. There's no "right" way or technique. Just keep trying your best! @alipaige6399,
She or he should've minded their damn business that's the world's problem now smh everyone is so nosy
@goodbyelullabye, that's how my son is to he had a heat rash for a month because I didn't realize how hot he was getting when I dressed him in fleece pajamas for bed so now he just sleeps in a cotton onesie and the rash has went away but thank you I see that he enjoyed it and that's all that mattered.
babies don't get cold like people think. I keep telling my dad that my son gets super sweaty if he has too many layers on. my son is always toasty in any temperature. I say go enjoy time with your son while he's still a baby ☺
@klp16, thank you it was good to get him out but people don't look at it that way. @amberjacq, I have bad mommy brain lol once we got out I thought about a hat but we were walking cause the park is close and he was covered in the sling carrier so I didn't think but I kept checking to make his he wasn't getting cold and he never did. @ellieinmybelly, I carry sanitizing wipes with me and I wiped it down good and sanitized my hands afterwards I thought about it before we put him in it he hasn't had shots yet he gets them next doctors appointment.
He might of needed a blanket on him but no you shouldn't have got bashed for it, it's not like you were letting him freeze to death and at least he had clothes on babies get cold sometimes that's a part of life
People love to think they "know best". To me, it sounds like you were enjoying time with your son! :)
Ignore people. They usually suck!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Dad's FB Video!!
Did anyone see that video a dad posted on his daughters FB page? He saw a post she made where she bashed her parents and cursed them, called them lazy and told them they should pay her for stuff she did around the house... So he called her out on it and put the video on her page!! Sorry if I missed a post already about this already, but I just saw the video and IT WAS AWESOME!!! Hahahhaa!
Why can't other mom's just be there for other mom's and work together and help each other not bash other mom's because when other mom's bash other mom's it makes us feel like we aren't doing a good job at least that's how I feel when I get bashed.
If on the weekend ur unborn child's father get his son from his bm and barely answers his phone and don't text....what would u think? Do u think he's spending time with the bm as well or he just wants to spend time with His son without being bothered?
I'd just be concerned putting him in that swing, he's way to little to be pushed in it and it could actually be very dangerous and the amount of germs that are on there is probably insane!