VENTING/ RANT: It's pretty sad I've been in a relationship with my bf for almost 2 years and it doesn't really feel like we are a couple. I just don't know what to do anymore. I thought things were getting better but they aren't it seems like they are getting worse and we have another baby on the way due in June. And I don't even know how I am going handle things because he doesn't really do anything for our first child as it is. It's always me cleaning, taking care of our child, feeding her, changing her, putting her to sleep, doing laundry non-stop, cleaning up after him. I never leave the house besides for doctor appointments. And he calls me lazy because I take a nap with my daughter every once in a while, and I don't do anything besides sit on my ass all day long. When he comes home from work the house is spotless but I am lazy. Ughhh it makes me so mad!! And it doesn't help that I have depression & anxiety it just makes it worse!! Sorry rant over!!
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@chloe_faith2016, healthy for the baby to get out of the house too
Geez I'm sorry hun @chloe_faith2016, you deserve some YOU time. Don't let yourself get lost in all of this. I sometimes wait on the laundry until my boyfriend gets home and tell him that I couldn't get to it because " I took the baby out today" or " I saw a friend today". Don't lose yourself 😔
I stopped doing shit. Like completely. He was like wtf? And I said nope, not until you appreciate it. Omfg was that the biggest battle.. well one of. But my husband is like a umm... puppy. He gets trained pretty quickly. He just didn't catch on to this one fast enough. He didn't help much at all before I got pregnant and it's still hard to get him to help but he does at times. Setting up the nursery as a surprise and doing laundry at times. He works all night so I give him a break but stand up for yourself. Your a mommy w feelings and not a maid and nanny. Hope things get better!
Saaaame situation 😒 but I'm taking care of a 14 month old and a newborn AND doing all the house work. Dude I didn't even have time to recover after I had our daughter 😑 as soon as I got home passed out for about an hour then back to the usual cooking and cleaning
On the upside, you will be able to look back and think what a bad@$$ you were for doing everything yourself! 😘 #supermom Hope things get better for you.
why do you keep him around? sounds to me like your a single mom as is. probably be less sad without him. just my opinion
It's sad, i sometimes feel like I am victim because I can't even go to my moms house and because my phone gets blown up from him asking what I am doing @sierramb,
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
just because I don't clean up everyone's else's mess beside mine and my son's and my dogs . doesn't make me lazy
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
I don't care what ppl think of me, but I'm seriously considering putting my baby up for adoption. I love her with all of heart, but doing this alone is hard. Every single night she just screams to the top of her lungs and I do everything to soothe her. I don't know what to do at all. I wish I had some kind of help. I don't have a single ounce of help. I don't know a single soul in Minnesota either.
I'm sorry to hear that your in the same situation as me. you can vent anytime!