@magic13 his mother dont understand at all she thinks i can brush my past off my shoulders and my anxiety,bipolar,ppd and depression off my sholders

I went through the same thing with my BD when my son was about the same age as your LO. I was suffering from severe post partum/depression/anxiety and he didn't notice the signs. Eventually, I realized that I just needed to focus on myself and the baby. Once he saw that I was no longer worried about him, it made him realize how much he was neglecting us at home and things started to change. It was an effort on both parts though. You can't do it alone.

@raquely as a mom with postpartum depression and anxiety and depression and possibly bipolar.....I am never really happy but i am sometimes happy when im around him but he plays his game instead of helping me or helping me when im getting depressed or mad