Not sure if I should put my child's father on child support yet. He works a job but contributes nothing to her can't even afford to pay for daycare, formula or misc necessities she may need. She's 3 months old and he ain't bought shit. I really hate to do it but I can't keep doing it all on. I'm not rich. Opinions?
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@cubanese, not at all. B/c he know I'm gon do whatever regardless
@cubanese, hes done nothing. She's been here 3 months and your fav line is I ain't got it. And he think Since he don't got it of course I'm gon have it. Hell I don't either but I make shit happen. As long as he got a job I'm gon get something cause clearly he think a child don't need things and I'm gon keep doing it all even putting a roof over her head and paying all these bills while you just coasting thru life
@cubanese, he don't help cause he never has any extra money. He don't make much. But all he has is a car note and a phone bill and he got a DUI so he had a lot of fines to pay off so that's where a lot of his money has been going. But it's no excuse cause baby's needs come first. I don't have it either but I always make a way. He does nothing but he can buy his weed and beer
I am the type of person that thinks if you're separated and the father helps financially and things like that there's no need for child support. But since he isn't helping provide or buy her anything I say go for it. If doesn't make any sense for him to help conceive her and not help provide for her.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
he's coming today. I really can't do this.
I'm loosening my mind I can't even set Michael down to pee he will cry I can't do anything
I know this sounds sooo fkedup but sometimes i wanna get into a bad accident so my husband sees exactly all the things i do ... and how wrong he is by saying i don’t do enough ( not in those words but the jist of it ) anyway .... i think this all the time . Maybe then he will think differently .
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
Even more of a reason to seek child support. If came around at least with a pack of pampers or a couple of sleepers it would show some sort of effort. It's his child regardless of your relationship. I don't believe he can't afford to spend at least 100 dollars a month if he's that "broke" due to financial hardship. He has it too easy.. @beautifulone1103