Even more of a reason to seek child support. If came around at least with a pack of pampers or a couple of sleepers it would show some sort of effort. It's his child regardless of your relationship. I don't believe he can't afford to spend at least 100 dollars a month if he's that "broke" due to financial hardship. He has it too easy.. @beautifulone1103

@cubanese, not at all. B/c he know I'm gon do whatever regardless

@cubanese, hes done nothing. She's been here 3 months and your fav line is I ain't got it. And he think Since he don't got it of course I'm gon have it. Hell I don't either but I make shit happen. As long as he got a job I'm gon get something cause clearly he think a child don't need things and I'm gon keep doing it all even putting a roof over her head and paying all these bills while you just coasting thru life

do it

@cubanese, he don't help cause he never has any extra money. He don't make much. But all he has is a car note and a phone bill and he got a DUI so he had a lot of fines to pay off so that's where a lot of his money has been going. But it's no excuse cause baby's needs come first. I don't have it either but I always make a way. He does nothing but he can buy his weed and beer

I am the type of person that thinks if you're separated and the father helps financially and things like that there's no need for child support. But since he isn't helping provide or buy her anything I say go for it. If doesn't make any sense for him to help conceive her and not help provide for her.