The boys are going riding... And I'm stuck here to do dishes, laundry & pack for a week. Just caught…

The boys are going riding... And I'm stuck here to do dishes, laundry & pack for a week. Just caught the boys with an ant 🐜 covered Capri sun in their room & stuffed clothes in their drawers... And I've been getting attitude from them. I feel like I'm the only one to catch them on the bad stuff they do... So I'm an evil step-mom. I caught the oldest (10) trying to start a fire 🔥 on the side of the house last night while we were having a get together... Throwing their trash on the ground... Putting underwear on their bikes, watching inappropriate things in the family room, etc... They're used to a "Lord of the Flies" atmosphere where no adults watch them and hold them accountable for their actions... And I am constantly catching them (like I think a parent should) on stupid $h!t they do. I'm scared to see what happens when they try to do this stuff once my blood is born!!!... I will be Big Scary & Mean Momma Bear!!!! 🐻