I'm not saying all men are like this but they don't get it lol. My husband said a couple of times I was spoiling our son for holding him a lot at first but then he realized you can't spoil a little baby. They feel better when they are comforted and they know the moms smell and it soothes them.

You can't spoil a 4 day old...children don't even learn things like that until like 6-9 months!

what do men know?

I'm trying to get him to understand that but he is a bit thick headed. It's a comfort for both myself and my son. I waited 9 months to hold him. To kiss him and take care of him. Hearing him cry knowing I can help him makes my heart hurt

For the last 9 months, the baby was all nice and warm, floating around in utero. They aren't comfortable sleeping on their back, as they have never done it before. So, they are most comfortable being held so they can hear the heartbeat they've been listening to for the last 9 months. Your man needs to be more understanding. Your precious baby isn't spoiled..they just need their mama! ❤️

A 4 day old isn't spoiled its called being a good parent and taking care of your child when he/she cries