I think imma lose my mind... I work so damn much while my SO stays at home all day long and watches our daughter well my MIL watches her pretty much all the time and my day off and I can't even sleep or rest.... I'm tired of this I've always been the one to work and him do nothing...
Lmao 😂😂😂 it's okay I've been buying ice cream non stop lol even the watermelon popsicles with the seeds lol
I know right because every time I'm prego I eat a whole carton of it with a sugar cone. I love it but I know it doesn't love me. 😂😂
When I went to a therapist about my situation, she asked me to write down on a piece of paper honestly.
#1 What do I like about my significant other?
#2 What I don't like about my significant other?
#3 What would you change about them?
If you have more of #2 then #1 then you probably are in the relationship for the wrong reasons and if you have more of #3 than #2 and 1 then you aren't with the correct person.
Your supposed to find someone that you love for who they are, your not supposed to change them!
You definitely deserve better. Sometimes love isn't enough. I love double pecan butter pecan ice cream but shit it's just not good for you.
Thank you! I don't know because I do love him but am realizing that I should be treated better and it's not worth it. @beebaby,
Let me just say from someone who has been there but without a child involved, I'm sorry your going through that.
The cops can't do that. It's against the law to.hold you against your will. What exactly are you staying for? Your working to provide and taking care of the house.
@beebaby, yeah but I don't think I will be able to leave... I left once but was dumb and came back and I won't be able to leave again they called the cops last time and the cops almost didn't let me leave because I wanted to go to tx with my family...
Thank you girl it's so hard... I love him so much more but don't know how much more I can take.. she is absolutely psycho and I told her how I'm finding out the sex early and will be going to pick up the results in a couple days and I won't know because it will be in a envelope and she said I don't know why you don't give me the envelope I said because I won't know until we open it and she started calling me all kinds of names told me fuck you and everything she try's to control my whole pregnancy and even with my daughter she acts like it's her kid....
If he wants to live with his mother then let him but you can do bad all by yourself, you don't need his help
Wait a minute, wait a minute. So #1, nobody can stop you from leaving anywhere even if you gotta go alone. #2, him allowing his mother to disrespect you says a lot about how he feels about you and your place in his life. She isn't number 1 anymore, she is number 2. you are his family. #3, why are you taking care of a guy? I don't care if he is a stay at home dad, if that is what he is then you shouldn't be doing all th3 cleaning and such when you come home. not saying you can't help him but it is his job to.maintain those things while you work and if you are bringing home th3 money then you can see your family when you want to.
He pressures me to do everything, my family can't stand him and his mom treats me terrible and he is still on his moms tit I swear because he always takes her side and allows her to call me all kinds of names and she won't let us move out and he doesn't care... and all my family is in TX and they said I'm not gonna go see them whenever I want..... they said if I wanna see my family I have to fly them here.... @beebaby,
Oh hell no. that would not be happening and what does he say when you come in doing all that?
Everything was so different when we met... it's the fact that I'm pregnant and he doesn't even care to work... or give our daughter a bath or do anything.. I come home have to do laundry, dishes everything and I work all day while he sleeps and has his mom watch our daughter
If it has always been that way then what is the problem now. Has anything changed? If your unhappy with the situation I would just tell him.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

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