Alright so I have a question my mom lives 3 hours away so if my boys go to visit her it's usually a weekend trip and my husband and I go also and spend the night with them. We have left our boys 2 times because of family emergencies with my mom which I thought was great because she told me they didn't cry and that everything goes great. Well the last time I went to pick them up my youngest saw me and clung to me and didn't want anyone touching him or for me to put him down which I thought ok he missed me. Well recently I went down there with them and as soon and my youngest saw where we were he started clinging to me and would cry if I left his sight which I thought ok he thinks I'm going to leave him again well when bath time came I put him in her tub and he started screaming and trying to get out (which he's never done before at my house he LOVES bath time). Well now she's asking for them to spend a few days with her and my husband wants a few days alone before he deploys but I'm not sure what to do he thinks I'm overreacting.
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KenyaМама троих детей
I wouldn't leave them. if your babies are scared to be there they need to know that you're protecting them.
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Jasmine Lambert·Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
Thank you guys so much and your right I'm going to go with my gut I don't think I will be leaving them there by themselves anymore
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