I'm so mad!!!!!!! so one of my friends was talking to me about not having a baby shower and how no…

I'm so mad!!!!!!! so one of my friends was talking to me about not having a baby shower and how no one was throwing her one for whatever reason they had and how she and her husband have so much they still need to get for the baby. I felt so bad bc I seen how all there money was going to bills and they hardly had any left over and so I talked to my fiance and we agreed to throw them one and we have been buying stuff for this shower and we have already spent 100+ just in decorations and we still had some more stuff to get plus food then I ask her tonight if her mom was coming to this baby shower and she says no bc now she has decided to throw her own....and my friend says that why we only invited our friends and outta state family. I was pissed bc I was gonna spend a lot of money on this and I find out its pretty much not worth having bc only six people are coming so far bc her mom decided after I announced this said baby shower to throw one. so now I just wanna take it all back. my feelings are hurt and my friend saw nothing wrong with it. I guess of course not since it isn't your money being spent.