S/O is disrepectful he called my mother a thot my uncle who is autistic retarted and got mad at my uncle for saying that…

S/O is disrepectful he called my mother a thot my uncle who is autistic retarted and got mad at my uncle for saying that he stole silverware a told him to his face he is not a man and because he wont talk to him back that he act like a scared ass child. And today he mad at me for telling him that i thought it was weird and supecious that he has been staying up super late like till 7 a.m in the morning and just by me asking that he says i never give him any trust and that he is getting fed up that i get suspecious of things he does. i also told him I wanted to go to councleing by myself for my problems but he told me it is dumb to do that and no one can help me that im not acting like an adult by dealing with it by myself.