I know everyone has their heated arguments with their spouses but tonight idk.. I've pretty irritable for a couple weeks…

@mrscruz0530, yup I feel you! Mine always has to have the last word even if it's disrespectful I'm just over all the bullshit and just wana be happy with the kids

My husband has tried to say "your the one that wanted a baby ... And a dog blah blah blah" it pisses me off when he tries saying something like that and I tell him that's fine I did want her and if he doesn't I have no problem leaving and divorcing him because I'm not going to stick around where I'm not wanted. But at the same time I know he loves her to death and it's just him talking shit to me so I stay but dam these guys don't know when to shut up and they don't understand enough is enough when it comes to harsh words

@dawnrose, Yea they're his.. girl if they weren't this would be a whole different story! And I sure hope he starts appreciate me more I feel like I'm in jail and my COs are my 2yr old and 1 yr old lol I literally go no where except across the street to the park smh lol I'm guna have a talk with him tomaro when he gets off work..

that's usually when they listen good... probably because it slows them down idk. maybe someday soon he'll grow up and appreciate you more. are these his kids?

@dawnrose, Yes! EVERYTIME he turns it around on me and says I'm bitchy and I take shit to serious and blah blah blah so I just shut down.. he plays victim EVERYTIME unless we're smokin and he really listens I'm stressed to no end and he doesn't see it he tells me I'm "extra"

have you ever told him how it makes you feel? (in a calm way)

@dawnrose, @mrscruz0530, don't get me wrong he's a good dad to the kids.. and he's younger than me so I get it but there's absolutely no excuses to say that to someone you love and have kids with.. and he's VERY ungrateful and doesn't know what he has going for him.. It just feels like he has no respect for me if he can talk to me like that with no hesitation.. I say some mean shit too but come on I would never say shit about the kids like that.. him oh hell yea I'll light that ass up with some bullshit but my kids no no buddy!

@haidynsmama, shit I'm wit you on that one! lol

Sorry mama that's fucked up of him. I'm sorry you have to hear that kind of stuff from his ungrateful ass

@mommyof2boys510, yes they are girl I'm dealing w some fckn bullshit now with my bd, kicked him out nod tryna get over him 😩😭😂 I just smoked to I'm about to pass out

yeah, some men are. I don't think they realize shit they say at times. I wish for one week they can have all the emotions us as females have. only if..

@haidynsmama, @dawnrose, oh trust and believe I ALWAYS let him know what's up I'm not afraid to let him know BUT this shit is just like wow.. he didn't apologize til like 20 mins ago this lil fight happened at 8 I don't feel his apologies are sincere.. I really think he thinks he did nothing wrong.. I think he thinks he has to physically to something to you to hurt you which is plain bullshit but idk man that really hit my core.. like really nigga! Soooo we smoke right so he leaves to go to the club and comes back lit and I'm still pissed as fuck and he tries to say sorry after he hears me crying.. im at a loss I have no words I just feel hella disrespected! And I have so much anxiety and it's too damn cold to go smoke lol I'm just going thru it right now.. ugh men are fuckin ASSHOLES

omg... I'm sorry girl. what a dick to say that. should have shoved plan b up his ass. that would hurt my feelings as well. he should help out more.. take some stress off you.

I'm sorry mama 😓 but he shouldn't have said that it's really fckd up & his ass needs to be helping you! Let him know put your foot down with these men...they don't ever think we're being serious