So I'm a single stay at home moment trying to go back to work. My family has helped me stay at home until my son was old enough to start school. I would have gone back sooner but with all the doctor's appointments, therapy sessions, and day care issues it's been difficult. I even get other moms who look at me like I'm not even trying to get back to work. It's so frustrating! I have an associates degree I got right after my son was born. I worked midnight to 8 am, came home to take care of him as on infant between power naps, and then went to school from 5:30-10:30. I'm not adverse to hard work. -_-' Why are other people so judgemental? I've even had people tell me you could have done just as well with him if you worked. But my thing is why should I have if I didn't have to?