Is anyone else with a man that has kids on the side ??
How is that working out for y'all ?
Well for me it's okay .. but I really wish sometimes that I would be with a guy that has 0 kids , but my man he is perfect that's the only bad thing 😕☹️😣
Oh heck I can't stand females like that !!!!! I'm sorry you have that bitter Betty around she's mad he isn't with her and she uses baby as bait such an insecure idiot if you ask me
@gracie454 well the mom only took his son to hurt him. She abandoned both her sons who have different fathers and well it's alot of drama. AND to make it worse...the divorce papers he sent her...she never signed. In all honesty and in my defense I had no idea that she always refuses to sign them and well he's still considered "married" which hurts me more than he will ever know. When I met him he said divorce was in process and that she doesn't know where he is. And more drama came and well...im stuck in the middle in a place I dont want to be. *sighs* life is funny as well as relationships. Half the stress I have is because all this drama I never expected to happen. And its causing pain to both me and my unborn child. What hurts more is that he wants to propose but I have to tell him no because I don't need to deal with her if she continues to refuse divorce papers. Big issue is she is also wanting to get married to someone else but do it in canada because it's apparently legal that way but I doubt it. so it's causing so much more pain than what there should be. Nothing is never easy. Relationships are never easy...there's times when I wish I could go back and pull myself away so I didn't have to go through this stuff. But it is what it is..
@jerin, that the same thing that happens to us . But the only difference is that the baby wasn't even born when me and him got together . She was still pregnant but they weren't together cause he didn't want to be with her cause she has problems . The baby is already 1 I love her but when she was born we found out that we where expecting our son . He was excited ,but he wasn't seeing his daughter much because the baby mama was keeping her from us till make 2 months now .. he is seeing her and that's only because the are going to court next month ..
@skysmommy04, well first of all the baby mama she is the main problem always making excuses to call my bf & not letting him see his daughter and if he does sees her the baby mama has to be around . Then she insults me for no reason ,calling me names and what not . She doesn't want the baby to be around me 😒...
I'm with someone who has a 4 yr old son. His mom took him away behind my bf's back so its difficult for me with this pregnancy. There's times I wonder if this is ok for him. He misses his son. I always thought I would be with someone who has no kids and we could start a life together and it would be great. But always expect the unexpected. I love his son. His son is a little turd but he's amazing. After he was taken I became pregnant. I found out when I was 3 months and waited another month to tell him about it. He says he's excited but I think it just hurts him. I don't really know what to tell you. It can be difficult or piece of cake. Depends on the situation I suppose. In the long run it would work out as long as you both keep putting in effort and not letting your relationship fade off or lack anything you had that was strong in the beginning. That's all I could really say..some people are lucky and others are trying to make the best of it.
Yes but hopefully , she I'll mature & stop