Am I wrong to just want to be treated like a women and not a child....I mean my man talks to me as if I'm a five year that's in training always telling me if you do what I tell you to then I want have to do this or that. like really where tf they do that at...for example so you can get a feel of what I'm saying. The other night we out and we just finished watching a movie...We in the car or whatever riding back towards the house to take me home and we started a discussion....all of a sudden the discussion goes left because we not agreeing because he's saying I got a attitude and I'm telling him no I don't so he's telling me to shut up and stop talking while he's talking as if I'm some child so of course I feel like he taunting me and so I continue to talk and he gets angry....so we get back to the house and its just crickets as we sit in silence in the car or whatever....so I speak up and say in a respectful manner babe can you not treat me as if I'm a child because I'm not your child babe I'm your women and you treating and talking to me the way you do is not going to make me no more less disrespectful or make me react in a negative way towards you. if you talk to me disrespectful then don't expect me to respond in a respectful way towards you because I'm not. I'm just tired of being treated as if I'm some child of his...ladies talk to me what should I do....what is it that needs to be done to dissolve of this situation because when I tell you I'm tired I'm so tired....
I would be tired of it too! I am not sure how to resolve this without causing more fights between the two of you, as I am not sure how he would react. but I personally would treat my man the same in return, so he understood how it felt. and every time he didn't like it, I would make it a point that it's the way he treats you, and it doesn't feel good. Good luck! You deserve better, I hope it all turns around for you soon!