What's the point in even being alive when my husband does nothing but treat me like shit call me stupid. And hardly helps with the baby? 💔 I'm about to pack my shit and the baby's and take the dogs with me to my moms for a few days. :/
In the beginning it is so hard. You feel very disconnected from each other and he feels disconnected from you and baby. I literally had to separate myself from my husband and the baby for him to understand that the struggle is real. Once my son got older it got a lot better. When he started really becoming active my husband became very involved and now those two are inseparable. You have to let them know they are setting the example of a father. He needs to step up or get out.
I finally did that when I was with my sons dad, best decision I ever made!