I know when I ever have a baby it's gone look just like my boyfriend 😩 them genes are tooo strong

My baby was born looking nothing like his father. But as soon as he turned 5 months he started changing a lot now he is 8 months and all my husband's family is amazed by their look alike. I show a picture of my husband when he was a toddler and they ask me when did I take the picture to my baby 😂 . Babies change a lot ! I wanted him to look like me 😫. But it's ok his dad is handsome lol
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.