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Shannon Darbyshire
Don't know if it's me overreacting or not but I feel like shit! My OH has been finalising his divorce to his ex today and has been messaging her all day which I haven't had a problem with because obviously they need to speak about it, but since he's messaged her he's been so off with me and looks depressed as anything, he's not spoken to me apart from the occasional snide comment, and I saw him typing to her asking how she was doing and chatting like normal even though he apparently hates her. Don't know what to think 😤
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@shannonn95 problem is, women are manipulative and men are stupid when it comes to women! 😑 xx
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@shannonn95 problem is, women are manipulative and men are stupid when it comes to women! 😑 xx
@nessie95 I am so glad it's not just me! He has 2 kids with her and she has refused to let him see them for over a year now and he's tried absolutely everything and she even sent him a voicemail message from the kids making them say they want to change their last name she's awful, but then as soon as she messages him he's fine checking she's okay and whatever it's like I don't mind them communicating for the sake of the kids and this divorce but everything else is too much he'd go insane if I messaged my ex! I'm gonna have a talk with him today and have a talk about boundaries like you said it seems a good idea xx
sorry for the extremely long message. XD xx
@shannonn95 I'm currently going through the same thing, except it's every single day, my OH found out he has another child and his ex is messaging him every single day, I've told him, I don't mind them talking about the bairn, but I don't appreciate it when they are having chats about everything and anything. Rob recently told her he isn't interested in her life, just the bairns (he read me the messages) but she's still messaging him. he then ignores her for a full day and she messaged him like 3 times asking why he was ignoring her, then all of a sudden (when rob continued to ignore her) decided to tell him the baby had been in an accident, but nothing added up right and I personally think she did it to get robs attention and so does he, but as he wasn't going to reply, I told him to (with it being about the kid) and she was suddenly happy again that she had his attention! she's a manipulative bitch and unfortunately, us women know other women's minds! we know that half the time they aren't just being sweet and innocent. all I've tried to do is be supportive to my OH, but I've also told him there's boundaries, maybe you should do the same? xx
@littleelf85 yeah I suppose so it's hard to support him when I know how evil she is and the fact that they were married it's a big thing ain't it my hormones don't help making me a jealous psycho! Suppose you've gotta be the bigger person though and just be there if need be