Ladies... I need some advice, this is all a little personal so brace yourselves. My fiancé and I have not had sex but like 3-4 times since I've been pregnant, the doctor unfortunately ordered us not too due to some pain I was having, we tried again the other morning and honestly, my vagina just hurts! It's been so long since I've had sex it takes forever to "put it in" and after that it just straight up hurts! We had to stop! Not even deep up close to my cervix just everything about it doesn't feel good. Now, I can deal with the no sex thing I can handle that, what makes me most nervous is how the heck is a baby supposed to fit through there in 4 months?! I know it sounds insane but my pelvic area is small to begin with, now I'm not having sex to "loosen things up" I feel like I'm going to rip when I give birth! Can someone PLEASE give me some (nonjudgmental) advice? What the heck am I supposed to do!
i was the same way with my pregnency but it wasnt constant thered be times it was painful and times it wasnt.... i also have a tilted pelvis.... but ur body knows what to do sweetie. the pregnency itself widens ur pelvic area and gets things ready. ull be ok sweetheart. @malachaiesmama
Your body works in mysterious ways. When the baby needs to come out your body takes over a adapts like crazy! I was very worried and felt the same exact way with sex being painful. I ended up tearing but very minimal and I'm 7 weeks pp and now I'm scared to have sex! Lol!