Racial nickname

I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?

My mother n law literally told my son not to call me mama and call me by my name and call her mama. Who does that stupid shit? I’m glad he doesn’t understand but it’s still kinda hurtful.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,

his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

Does anyone else see a faint line? My husband is pretty much calling me stupid because I see it