I say no. You will have so many emotions going. You want this day to be as careful and comfortable as possible.

No.. I need someone there during my c section I feel supported by. He pressured me til I was 6 months to get an abortion treated me like crap and I haven't seen him besides him showing up at my mothers funeral in November since my first trimester. He can see the baby after she's out if he so chooses

@mainegal98 thats different if you guys cant come to an understanding and all its gonna be is an argument if hes in there. then maybe he can wait and once baby is out he can get his time.

Even though he is involved with a new other, we both can't come to a understanding.

Yes of course. you didnt make that baby by yourself love.