Some ppl I tell you. So my cousin is 32 weeks pregnant w twins. She is going threw some hardships so I had offer to help…

amen to that. I agree momma

@illyp1012, nobody's good enough to judge you as a parent. I am 23 and have a 4 months old and at the beginning everybody was telling what I was supposed to do. I didn't care. If I want spoil my child I will, spoiling a child doesn't mean that you give a bad education as long as you give value to what you get for her. I am a nanny since 5 years and I can tell you that there's difference between spoiling a kid and making a kid a little brat ;) !! If giving your daughter what she wants makes both of you happy who cares ? Like I said as long as she knows the value of it and knows that her mommy worked hard for what she got :) . Don't let people judge you ;)

@mamabear0903, I know I'm a bit annoyed as I am a single parent. And I only have one child so yes maybe my child has more then she needs but don't sit at my house last night and both bash how my child is spoiled

It sucks ... It's always when you want to do nice stuff for ppl that you get disappointed... Don't bother yourself. Do what's better for your cousin because at the end it's for her and not for her sister ;) . At the end, at your house or somewhere else it's gonna make her happy and you will be the one who organized it :)