Got told by Henrys god mother today that if he ends up Bisexual,Gay or Trans, shes going to refuse…
Got told by Henrys god mother today that if he ends up Bisexual,Gay or Trans, shes going to refuse to take custody of him if something were to happen to me and stephen, when she already swore to us that she would. She finished the statement with " im not homophobic or anything! I just cant deal with a little boy who wants his nails done, talks funny, and gets dumb haircuts." Alright first of all...Theres nothing wrong with any of that. If Henry grows up and wants to be a woman, thats fine, as long as hes happy. If he wants to date men, thats fine and dandy, as long as his partner treats him right and makes him happy. I dont care what he identifies as! As long as it makes him happy! And secondly, who the hell are you to tell me what my son can and cant be? Are you him? Do you feel what he feels? No, you cant. And no im not going to tell him he cant be Gay, Bisexual, Trans, or anything else. Its not my place as a mother to tell him who he can and cant be. Its my place to shape him into a kind, respectful, honest human being. To keep him warm, clothed, and loved. And to make sure he has opportunities in his life that I didnt. Hes just a baby right now and who knows what the future holds for him. But i know one thing, I will LOVE him Regardless of sexual orientation and regardless of what sex he identifies with. Because he is my child, and you dont just stop loving your children for bullshit reasons like that. Im glad I got to see this side of her, now i can focus on choosing a god mother who loves him for who he is and who he will become. Someone whos willing to support him in being himself no matter who he chooses to be.
Jorja Green·
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I would no longer have her as a God mother.. "im.not homophobic tho" that's such a crock of shit or she wouldn't have said anything..
Raven·
Мама сына-младенца
Shes not his god mother, nor my friend anymore. I have zero tolerance for people like her. @jsco
Jorja Green·
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yea that's insane that she thought that was ok to say.
Raven·
Мама сына-младенца
She straight up said " You better make sure hes not a f-ing fag like yall" And thats where i lost it. I snapped on her so fast. Henrys father and i are both bisexual and no ones ever been that offensive about it. @jsco
Jorja Green·
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😩😩 omg.. I'm so happy you stood up for yourself and your babe. that is so beyond ridiculous. regardless if you don't agree with someone's lifestyle you don't say disrespectful shit like that. my god
Raven·
Мама сына-младенца
Right? Ive completely removed her from our lives now. @mommy.to.sterling
Barbara ✨·
Мама дочки-младенца
good for you momma 😊😊 I gave my daughter a boy toy and my mother got so mad at me saying she should play with girl toys and I said she's my child and she wanted that car so I got it for her simple. she hasn't said anything about it since 😊
Envy·
Мама дочки (2 года)
It really sucks when you have so much trust in someone and then it turns out like this. Henry is lucky to have a Mommie that cares enough to stand up for him. As a lesbian, I was accept by my family but I have many friends who had parents like you so called friend here. That type of thinking can lead a child to drugs, alcohol or even suicide. Kudos to you mom