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Laura Adkins
Laura Adkins
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I love my son more than anything..

I love my son more than anything..

I'm seriously to the point of wanting to leave his father though.

I never get any help. He gets to sleep all night and doesn't help me at all unless I ask him to and even then I get attitude.

Everyone always praises him on how good of a dad he is never once am I mentioned. It pisses me off he takes all the credit when here I am telling him how to burp our son or staying up all night soothing our son because his poor little belly has gas...

Then on top of all that I see he liked a picture of his ex girlfriend. I talked to him about it and he blew it off like it was nothing.

Why does life have to be so unfair? I'm trying to be the best mom I can be and I can't seam to do anything right...

As soon as we came home from the hospital I've thought about suicide just about every night.. the only thing stopping me is my son.. I don't want to tell anyone because no one will listen or care.. all they care about is Tristian and Tylan.... I'm just the silent person doing everything..

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momofboth

c. gМама сына (1 год), беременна (12 нед.)

you don't need praise from no one to prove your a good mom . you know your a good mom and your son knows so that's all that matters. if we spend our lives trying to please people we will never be happy. no one is perfect not even your sons father. your doing the best you can for your son and that's all that matters . smile because your lil boy he's proud of you and loves you with all his heart . and you definitely should leave his father . you deserve better. and talk to a professional on how you feel @laurawendel . God bless

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mommabear27

JillМама двоих (2 года, 7 лет)

Oh, mama, you are so important! I'm so sorry that people don't recognize your hard work with your son and in your home. I hope your significant other wakes up and realizes what an amazing gift he has been given - an amazing mother to his child. It's hard for us to do everything alone though. Much to everyone's disbelief, we are not super moms. We also need a break sometimes. I hope maybe you can talk to him and make him realize that he needs to be present in your son's life and be a PARTNER to you, you are not alone in the responsibilities of your baby. Please see your doctor if you are feeling helpless. You may have PPD which is very real and very serious. 💛 Talk to that man of yours and tell him to wake the eff up before he has nothing left but stupid pictures of his ex.

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achappex3

Allie Мама двоих (2 года, 2 года)

First of all, by the way you're talking about your son and the things you're doing for him you ARE the best mommy for your little one.

Secondly, leave him. You don't need him. Even if you take some time apart. Take time to focus on yourself and your little one.

Thirdly, it sounds like you may have a little PPD, which is common. Ask for help. That is okay. Baby needs a happy, healthy, mommy. It's hard, but it'll pass.

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lakota-winyan

dawnМама дочки-младенца

I'm sorry you're going through that. please seek professional help. I agree if it's to that point you should leave him.

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