Okay I've been married for 3 years and been with my husband for 13 years and I'm not happy anymore π we fight all the time we don't even sleep in the same room anymore, when he leaves to work we just say bye no hugs kisses and also when he comes home I don't go anywhere with just friends or family, I don't ask for anything cause it comes to no or it's a wast of money all my makeup he doesn't buy my mom does cause she uses coupons and she just dose I don't even ask her, the list can go on and I don't think it's healthy for us and I just don't know how to tell him and our kids he is a great father to them
If he doesn't wanna fix it then it's time to get out of there and live your life honey buns. π
That's a tough one. I'm assuming he somewhat feels the same if he's being , sorry for my bluntness, a dick to you. I'd say talk to him tell him you want certain things fixed or you will leave. He thinks you're always gonna be there that's why he's such an ass. You have to let him know you're not happy. If not he'll never know and you'll just be there unhappy.
that's how mine was. couldn't take it anymore and there was no fixing it. life's too short to stay with someone like that!
No counseling we talk and he always say to you don't want be with me or it's always my fault aways
So he still haven't said anything back and when he got home nothing π