Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
3RD UPDATE: What would you do? Ok, so we have these new neighbors they have been there renting the house 2 doors down for about 3 months or so. They have a 2 year old boy, he just turned two. They have asked me to babysit him on multiple occasions, just so happens I've been busy each time. In my mind, they don't know me or anything about me. Barely know my name and they want me to watch their kid because they see I have kids and stay home. Apparently they haven't had any luck with the babysitters they have had. Well his sister just moved in and she had the little boy all morning. I get a text at 11 from the mom asking if I can come get the boy because the sister needs to leave to work on her car?.... I told her I would but was on my way to the store and would be back at 12 and would get him then. So I get back and the sister brings him over. He doesn't know me at all, but he is a very good little boy. I had no problems with him the whole time. So here is my question, I watched him from 12 to 530, the mom texted at 2 and asked how much I told her 10-15 just because I'm nice. If it was me in that situation on such short notice and someone saving my ass to watch my kid I would give them 15-20 if they said 10-15. So the dad picked him up and said the mom would pay when she got home. I just texted and asked her because she's been home since 6 (now it's 930) if she was bring over the money, I was super nice about it. She said her husband had to go to the bank, so he went and came back and then she texted me that it was on the front porch. They gave me $8. Like really? I just find this super weird. Would you be kinda thrown back by this also? I definitely learned my lesson and won't be "helping out" anymore. I just thought this was nuts.
so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he post pictures and stuff about her he puts my daughter i am honestly double thinking this if I should move or not im 22 and 6 months pregnant!?????
My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her own when she is ready to come ! As much as I am anxious to meet her and have her home with me, those last few weeks of brain development and lung maturation means so much more to me! I'm hoping and praying that things turn around, and I don't have to get induced. I'm surely going to talk to my doctor about it Thursday when I go back.
IS·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I am very sorry! you cannot really change her attitude; she has to do it. no matter how much it hurts, focus on your baby, on healing, and on your relationship in your nucleus family. 💚 @lovingbabykaidence
Fierra sylvester ·
Мама сына-младенца
Wow .. I hate this for you but through it all you have to stay strong for your family. It's a blessing that you do have your dad and mother in law helping you all but sad because the person you need the most won't set aside her feelings and be there.
I would say try to talk to her again but if you've tried to talk to her and she only results to negativity then let it be. Continue getting by and pray she has a change of heart. Sooner or later she will come around
Stacy Foster·
Мама дочки-младенца
@concrete You're right. She has to see it. I hope she does soon, but my main priority is my little girl so I'll have to let it be ❤
Stacy Foster·
Мама дочки-младенца
@jaidensmommy I hope she does, but you're right. I can't be stressed out, especially now. So if she never sees it rationally, I'll just have to let it be. Pray on it and keep taking care of home is what I'll be working on ❤
Maddy·
Мама сына (1 год)
Some moms are just like that my mom is same way. Even though my dad is there for me she still is mad at him about past stuff that's happened 21 years ago. And I just got to the point where I don't care because like you said I didn't choose to be here and maybe she should've thought about stuff before she had a baby with him. And I'm not gonna not have a relationship with my dad because of problems she has with him.
Stacy Foster·
Мама дочки-младенца
@rodriguez13 That is EXACTLY how I feel about the whole situation.
Maddy·
Мама сына (1 год)
Well I understand completely more than you even know I been dealing with it all my life 🙄😞