19 yrs old, second pregnancy. I have a beautiful little girl named Elilah who is 7 months old. And im currently 5 weeks…

Youre an adult and a mother please act like one ✌

Listen lady Idk y u r attacking me but please stop

I never said anything about your age. And since it's twins she could have gone through ifv or a donor because she wanted more babies. THATS why I asked how. But y'all have just shown yalls own insecurities by pointing out everything else that wasn't mentioned

@mamatee thank you and maybe he will

yea im 20 in August and the dad is well currently MIA. I wish people would understand age isnt the important things its being able to take care of ur kid

I just turned 20 and the Dad has bailed, its ridiculous how judgemental people are nowadays. The situation isn't ideal but I wouldn't have it any other way! You'll do great just gotta plan ahead and be ready for anything ❤

smh saying that it's a shitty situation is passing judgement good lord she asked for advice if you didn't have any or anything nice to say why comment at all we are post to encourage and uplift each other we are all here for the same reason regardless of age or spouse situation!! @tiffanywillow I'm sorry to hear your going through it alone but you'll do great twins won't be easy but raising what baby is and who knows maybe the dad will come to his senses and get involved and help only time will tell but your doing good now and you'll continue to get better I wish you the best of luck hun

ik people hear 19 with baby and act like im a horrible person. Its okay when my princess smiles at me all the negative comments float away. And thank you I wish more people would understand ur age and relationship status doesnt make u a good mother. Putting ur kid before u makes u a good mother

@kellyl22, why would you ask how she got pregnant? That's a stupid question lol. Sounds like judgement to me, she asked for advice, not to have her situation thrown in her face. @tiffanywillow, it sounds like you are a good mom, and have a good head on your shoulders!! Don't let anyone judge you about your age, and just keep doing what you need to do for YOUR babies. Everything will work out and be fine 💜

I'm not trying to judge.. That's just a shitty situation

@kellyl22 im an adult and a good mom. I may not be married but that doesn't mean anything. Women have raised children on there own for millions of years and will probably do so for a million more. Me and my boyfriend were engaged but then we realized it wasnt for the best then i found out i am pregnant. He isnt Elilah dad, her dad died a while ago. The father of the twins is still trying to deal with being a dad at 20. But whatever he decides is his choice as mine is to have a beautiful babies and raise even if its on my own. Im happy and ik 19 really young to be a mom and pregnant again but that just means more time i get to spend with my babies.

thank you

@tiffanywillow congratulations! You'll do great mama! Just pray and take it one day at a time and remember that by the time the twins get here your daughter will be over a year old so it won't be like you'll have 3 newborns. As she gets older she'll start to understand, help, and love her siblings. Whether your ex is in the picture or not you'll always be a good mom and will be able to provide for your kids. I know you don't have any family close by but reach out they might be able to help from afar. You got this! 😊

Wow..

Me and my now exboyfriend had sex

If you don't mind me asking.. How did you get pregnant?

no family just me and my daughter

Yes God has blessed me and thank you

any family close by to help you too?

All I can say is continue to pray, ask God for strength to help you raise your kids.... he has truly blessed you! Me and my BD aren't together and I've been just trusting God to help me raise my daughter and provide for her.... and He has.