Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
I work night shift, 6pm till 2am or later. My boyfriend works days, so he's gone when the kids get up. That puts me getting up early with the kids. I'm so over tired there are days that I can't function. I'm thinking about quitting. Letting my boyfriend go back to working 2 jobs (he likes it better that way). But that puts him not being home at all and me being home all the time. But he'll be happier and I'll have more sleep. I'm just not sure what to do. There's down sides with either choice.
Got into a huge fight with the SO Sunday. He tells me out of frustration that he doesn't care when I tell him I'm tired when I "don't have a job" ig taking care of our daughter an two dogs isn't enough of a job. While I do laundry an crap. An tell me he's tired all the time an he works I don't. An he yelled at me for accidentally knocking over her medicine bottle. An I looked at his phone an he told like 3 people we were done an told his cousin he'd get a lawyer an take her away from me. I can't seem to forgive him for telling me he doesn't care that I'm usually tired or stressed. I just idk anymore... 😔
Renee Fletcher ·
Мама дочки-младенца
Omg I found out what was going on. So she's at that age where she's figured out she can scream. Before my husband left for his appointment an hour ago she started doing her screams. He was like "see? She's screaming. She's mad about something. I told him she's not mad she just found her voice and just makes random screams. That was what had him upset the whole time. I swear, I wonder about him sometimes
Renee Fletcher ·
Мама дочки-младенца
She has been super fussy with me before as well but I guess I'm use to it and just know that she'll eventually calm down.
Renee Fletcher ·
Мама дочки-младенца
Yeah I've shown him many times how I help her calm down. And when we are together he does it fine. I really have no idea what's going on while I'm gone. I wish I could see what was happening but it never happens while I'm home. I noticed last night her mobile was on the floor and her bouncy seat was flipped over. I asked him what happened and he got extremely upset with me. He said it was the way I asked but I didn't think I asked it in a bad way I just wanted to know why all this stuff was laying around. He said the mobile fell and the bouncy was in his way.
Renee Fletcher ·
Мама дочки-младенца
We don't have any family nearby unfortunately. But there is one lady whose husband works with mine that loves our daughter to death and use to be a pediatric nurse. She's helped us a lot so I would tell him to call her whenever things get out of hand but he never does it! Why he won't say. It's super frustrating like he doesn't even want help he just wants to complain and for me to yet again give up my job for him.
nyla sephus ·
Мама сына-младенца
My husband was the same way once I went back to work. Is there anyone that can be there with him while he watches her to.help when he gets frustrated?