I'm so frustrated. I used to have these two (girls) best friends of mine I've known since high…
I'm so frustrated. I used to have these two (girls) best friends of mine I've known since high school and they both introduced me to my fiance. I don't know how we are no longer friends but they are still best friends with my fiance. I do occasionally get on his phone to read what they talk about. They talk about how they wanna hang out but without me tagging along. When he told them I was pregnant they had the audacity to ask him if he knows my baby is really his. One of them used to have a crush on my fiance and is trying to invite him to go dancing with her. I don't tell him I've read the messages. Let alone tell him I'm uncomfortable about him being friends with them. But I don't want to be the reason he chooses friends vs family. He hates those who try to make him choose between stuff. I don't want him to hate me...I don't want him to lose friends or anything of that. He already lost a lot. I love him so much...I'm so scared that my former best friends will fade him away from me. What really pissed me off is how they want to be a part of my baby's life but doesn't want anything to do with me. How does that work?? I do try to talk to him about how I don't like the idea of them being involved in our baby's life because of their problems and bringing bad influences around. I just...am I in the right for feeling like this? Am I wrong or what? I've tried to talk to them about solving our problems but they don't want to cooperate...I don't want them near my baby if they're going to continue trying to tear my family apart...
Krysta Mashatt·
Мама троих детей
you're actually letting them tear your family apart. You let your "fiancé" manipulate you into thinking you don't have a voice for yourself. I'm sure he knows that female used to like him....so that fat alone, he knows he shouldn't be talking to her. if anything, he should be sticking up for you.. You need to voice how you feel in this situation. her inviting him out to dance is asking him to go out and cheat on you. OPEN YOUR EYES.
You and his child should come before some homewrecker and her friend. stand up for yourself before you get cheated on. if I were you, I'd personally ask then to stop inviting your fiancé out to clubs because he has a fiance and a baby on the way. no man about to get married should be out clubbing with other females. OPEN YOUR EYES
Adriana geray ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
He shouldn't let them talk about you like that in the first place. Ask him how he would feel if the roles were reversed and if he be okay with you talking to guys friends and they were talking about him like that and sending you texts like that.
Elisabeth S·
Мама дочки-младенца
Never let a guy manipulate you into thinking that you are in the wrong. A man should never be upset if the woman he loves is not comfortable with his female friends. Especially when they used to be friends with you and you have already tried making amends. This is ridiculous. You are a family now. A baby on the way. And if those girls want to be around the baby they need to start by respecting the mother. Home wreckers like need to be kept far away from you, and him. You need to put your foot down now before you are COMPLETELY taken advantage of. My bf had close female friends and he would never get upset if I told him anything. Him getting upset with you is just ridiculous.
Miriah Montana·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (8 нед.)
No guy should act like his friends come first. My man would have been long gone if he tried playing that game. It don't work honey. When you have a family that family is everything. Nobody else can be apart or your family will never work. That baby only needs one mommy and one daddy. If he wants to some how let them be in and act like bitchs no baby needs that shit
Mia Miller·
Your husband either needs to end the friendship with them or it's going to cause major issues with your marriage. Sounds like they haven't grown up since high school. It's likely it's the one crushing on your hubby that is starting the drama but for your husband to allow them to disrespect you is another issue you should address to him. Don't make it about them just make it about how you feel and what you expect as far as respect and support about the situation. Keep in mind they/she wants you guys to fight.... good luck & f those women don't let them stress you out or use any of your energy
Heather Miller·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
screw that choose me or lose me baby. I don't need skanks in my relationship
deleted-user·
no one other than your fiance owes you anything so it is very reasonable to ask him to cut off people that threaten your family/relationship. Eventually something's gonna have to give because unless your man set some bounderies with them they will keep trying him and you.