question ladies me and my husband have been through a lot this year with my mom and others in my family.. my mom has…
question ladies me and my husband have been through a lot this year with my mom and others in my family.. my mom has constantly disrespected him and has told others our personal business. other people have just talked about us behind our backs and bluntly disrespected our marriage and our parenting skills. Im a forgiving person and he thinks im too nice to them. so basically he tells me lets step away from everyone and change our numbers because he is tired of drama and people lying on him and he says he wants to strengthen our marriage and become closer its sounds ok but I am wondering if that is a good decision to make basically I need confirmation please help somebody !!!!!
edit::my mom also called all the time sometimes late always makes suggestions with my kids and makes plans for my kids with out me knowing.. its been a lot of bs
Emily Keiper·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года)
if you haven't already I'd have a talk with your mom and everyone else I'd do it with your husband because you are both a team and what ever can be said to you can be said to your husband and vice versa if that doesn't or didnt work and they keep going I'd do what your husband suggested....
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I think it's a great idea and another thing you need to do is keep your business private no matter what it is. the worst thing to do is confide in your mother because she will always think he is the bad guy and when you try to say different everyone will remember that one time he did something wrong instead of the million he did right
Tasha·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@emily92 yes we have tried numerous times to mend things and we still get disrespected or just my mom over stepping her boundries. thank you for your comment
Emily Keiper·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года)
you're welcome
Tasha·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@beebaby you're so right about everything in that comment. I made a big mistake confining in my mother it really caused us unnecessary drama. thank you for your comment.
Sunny Ribbons ·
Мама дочки-младенца
I think if she is constantly overstepping her boundaries, then it's definitely time to take a timeout or whatever you want to call it. I would actually let her know that until she learns how to respect you and your husband she can expect not to see either of you or your children if you have them.
Tasha·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@redribbons31 exactly what I plan on doing, I absolutely hate drama. Thank you for your comment