How to get partner more involved ? He works and thinks he has the right to sleep all night while I'm up all day and night
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I had the same problem he works and thinks because I stay home I should be the one doing everything because he tired from working. I get that but I get no brakes and I don't just to come home and sleep or take a nap the way he dose everyday 😒
my husband works and I'm a sahm, when the baby Crys at night, I am the one to get him. he helps during the weekends and when he gets home.
I did have to have a talk with him to help with the boys when he gets home from work so they have face time with him.. even if he's tired from work he gets to punch out I never do. with that in mind he's been much more helpful
i wish i can get him involved but he is a construction worker so he is gone from 5am til 6 up til 8pm (depends) ...im a stay at home mom i have my son everywhere with me whileni do chores in a bouncer, baby carrier and sometimes crib cause he loves his musical toys but once he sleeps he i sleep nd cuddle wit him the more warmer he is the longer he sleeps...
Try explaining your job is a 24/7 one you don't get any breaks or a start and stop time so ask if he could give them a bath or do dishes something like that or on the weekend wake up with them and let you get a little extra sleep so you don't burn out
Rainbow in the sky after walking my 2 mutts last night. Here's to hoping for us all! ?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
My boyfriend hasn’t changed ONE diaper ever and my son is 9 months old. He hasn’t fed him in about 5 months, he doesn’t bath him and hes never been left alone with him and he doesn’t even wake up during the night to help with him. He MAYBE washes the bottles at night if it’s a good day and I’m confused as to how bc I’m a woman IM supposed to do all that by myself?? lmfao ya no.
Momma's I have a question, does your significant other help at all during the night or at night if they work? My SO thinks since he just got s job now he only has to help on the weekends? Is that right?
Idk if this is a little to harsh but my stepson is 2 and 7 months now the time outs are not working so I stepped it up a little and decided to take all toys away and tv away for whatever he has left of the day till bed time. Gets it taken for hitting us or throwing toys or kicking... He kicked me right in the mouth last night so he didn't get his toys till after nap and no cartoons and thats around 4pm is this to much??
@adrianageray92, j
That's exactly how it is and he said there's nothing he can do he can't feed her or do anything...he says once she gets to be 1 then he will be able to do stuff.