Okay I have a few questions and I want everyone to be honest. Me and my husband split up last year around September 2, 2015. My daughter was born March 17, 2016. He has not really been apart of her life because when we got back together to try and work things out he kept trying to start stuff with my other baby daddy and what I mean by that is he had got ahold of my old phone that had Facebook on it and was trying to get my other baby daddy to send him pics of his ding dong acting like it was me just to start a fight between me and him. Well while we was together he didn't do much with either of my 2 kids and kept pawning his daughter off on me as soon as I got home from work even though I had her all night long before I went to work and as soon as I got home didn't have a chance to eat or rest or anything. Well I got back with my other baby daddy and we are expecting our little man in 3 weeks. Am I in the wrong because of my choice not to let my husband into my daughter's life when he didn't want to be there most of the time anyway. Also he kept saying while I was pregnant with her if it was a girl where does he sign divorce papers and he kept telling other people that she was not his and that he didn't want her but now he wants her but he keeps asking me is she his???
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chick he doesn't need to b n her life if he gonna act like tat
Girl I'm telling you don't worry your nerves THEY WONT TAKE YOUR CHILD AWAY AND GIVE IT TO HIM HE WOULD HAVE TO HAVE PROOF
well it didn't start getting to me until this last few weeks because he keeps saying he is going to file for full custody and I am going to lose her and never see her grow up and everything
Agreed^^^^ he will soon realize what he missed out on my babies father is the same way.. only speaks to them every three months unless his family or me nag him to be more involved now I'm just like fuck it oh well!!
Well my other baby daddy has been raising her and acting like a father towards her because he said she is mine and he is not turning her down even though she is not his
They won't allow him full custody that's something he would have to prove that you are unfit so don't give into his threats
Well there's TO much inconsistency with him so I SAY FUCK HIM YOU DONT HAVE TIME TO PLAY GAMES WITH HIM! And you don't have time to sit around and wait for him to decide to be a father
Well he has not wanted to be there and now he is threatening to take her from me and I won't ever see her again
Nope don't run behind him because HE SUPPOSE TO RUN BEHIND YOU TO BE IN HIS DAUGHTER LIFE!! If he don't want to be there than fine there's nothing you can do about it but if he wants to be there i say give him a chance
And on top of that one minute he wants her nexts he says he doesn't want anything to do with her
However if you decide not to ITS justified because he shouldn't be denying her
Every time I have gave him the opportunity he doesn't take it then he blocks me on Facebook and blocks my number so what am I supposed to do force him to have something to do with her
Yes it's wrong everyone makes mistakes! You never keep a man away from his child you don't have to be with him
But I think he deserves a chance to be in his daughters life
I say for her sake that if he wants to be there let him. my mom never kept me from my dad but I grew up without him because he decided to never come and get me. he even would call and say he's on the way and I'd sit there waiting and he'd never show up. I wish he would have been in my life but I'm glad I know the real him and that it was his choice and not my moms keeping him away.
let it be his choice or not don't chase him to get him to see her if he wants to be in her life he will try like the other lady said